Wednesday, December 28, 2005

indulging myself ... and some updates

I feel that it's important for everyone to, once in a while, indulge themselves. Treat themselves to something nice or special. To do something for yourself that it's unlikely anyone else will do for you.

Now I'm not advocating doing this all that regularly, at least not the big expensive indulgences, or you will wind up in major debt awfully quick. LOL

Mostly I'm talking about small indulgences. Getting the $5 coffee. Ordering steak instead of a burger, or lobster instead of the fish. Buying the REALLY nice shirt instead of the nice, functional shirt. Getting a massage, or spending the day at the spa. Getting the personal lap dance instead of just tipping the stripper at the stage.

But every once in a GREAT while, you need to treat yourself extra special.

Traditionally, I do this for myself for Christmas or my birthday, or inbetween.

My birthday, for those of you who don't know but want to send me a card, or a present, or naked pics of yourself — not YOU, mike and sabledawn! geez! LOL — or homemade cookies or something, is on Jan. 15.

Any way, I do this to ensure that I get one really nice gift for Christmas and/or my birthday that I really, really wanted. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I get shitty presents from friends and family, but for the kind of items I'm talking about, I don't expect friends or family to pony up that kind of cash. Yes, I'm talking about relatively expensive items.

Today was an indulgence day. Ta-dah:
Yet, new golf clubs to go along with my new putter! LOL

It should be noted that I got the clubs on sale. It also should be noted that the entire set of clubs I bought was cheaper than the putter. Hmm ... I guess some of my friends DO pony up for the "big-ticket" items. LOL

And I will be putting the clubs and the putter to use this weekend. :oD

BLOG UPDATES GALORE!
• First of all, there is a new erotica piece up at DZEROTICA, entitled "Hot Tub Fantasy."

• Also, there are lots of new photos up at DZER's Guam Pics.

For example, there are pics of flowers ...

and new sunset photos too ...

• Below this post is the early HNT from Guam ... and a new RGFOTD.

36 comments:

Mike said...

Don't feel alone on not wanting to see me naked...I know of no one...including women....who want to see that....lol

DZER said...

pshaw ... judging by the comments you get and from whom you get them ... there are a lot of ladies who would jello wrassle each other for the privilege of seeing you nekkid. LOL

Chrissie said...

thats such a purty sunset...

and yay you! Gettin active in 06! new clubs!

Now where the fuck is the puppy your supposed to be walking DAILY??

Chrissie said...

Mike...?? if thats an offer you may start sending me pics thru yahoo ANY time :D

DZER said...

I'll have the big pics on the way to you soon LOL

and what puppy?

see mike? chicks wanna see ya nekkid! LOL

Everything Nice said...

Some body said Jello Wrestling... and naked Mike...

so, are we naked jello wrestling with Mike then?

DZER said...

E.N.: well, to get to mike you have to get by me first! LOL

murphy said...

i'm picking up some weird pimp/gigelo vibe working in here today... weird

DZER said...

murph: I'm in a pimp daddy mode, I think ...

if you got change to break a buck, I'm sure I could get ya work LOL

gigi said...

Puppy?!! Did someone say, PUPPY?

grainne said...

Chrissie...He is such a little shit! You keep after him on your end about the puppy...I refuse to let him forget about that poor little ball of unconditional love that wants to move in with him...maybe with enough prompting he will get off his ass and go save it from the pound. I don't know how long you have been hearing the puppy teasing but I know I have been hearing about it for a couple of months. First I heard he needed to ready the apt, then it was after xmas when things slowed down a little...I think he is almost exhausted all of his excuses. However he could always forgo the puppy in favor of a couple of kittens ~chuckle~ Even then he would still have a long way to go to catch up with either of our pet listings (I have 4 cats I claim and a stray that has claimed me over the last couple of weeks)

Dzer...so what will it be? A pair of kittens? A puppy.... or you could always adopt some poor homeless needy child from your area...and NO I am not talking about an 18 year old stripper or a mail order teenaged bride!! ~swat~

Suze said...

Dzer, both you and I share a calendar month.

Unfortunately can't treat myself just yet as I've got no job. *pout*

Hopefully in the New Year. Until then I'll enjoy your treats with you. Although I don't do golf. LOL.

Steppin' On Toes said...

Nice nice tat

DZER said...

gigi: no one said puppy!

grainne: cats? you dare raise the spectre of cats? and stop swatting so hard! LOL

suze: oooh ... I will share my indulgences with you in you share something in return with me ;)

jax: thanks hon ... you baring flesh this week? ;)

ell said...

enjoy those clubs, d. everybody needs to splurge now and then.

Chrissie said...

I said puppy!

grainne... lol i've been trying to get him to get a puppy for a few years! I have a duel purpose of the unconditional love thing and thinking he would benefit from the love that is a puppy... AND it would force him into exercising. Puppies need to be walked couple times a day. I nagged him into the quitting smoking, only took me about 6 years soooo I’m figuring 06 will be the year of the Pup!

RIGHT DUANE?? *poke* You have a few days left in 05??

GET IT DONE!

DZER said...

ell: thanks darlin', I will ... and better spent on clubs that I can keep and use instead of strippers I can only use temporarily LOL

chrissie: did you? I must have missed that part! and that means only 3 more years of nagging on the puppy side!

and I want to get YOU done ;)

Chrissie said...

BULLSHIT... i'm not hangin around and naggin for 3 more years damn it!

I wonder if i can withold the possibility of ever doing me phone or otherwise for a puppy... LOL
This might have worked a few years ago but i'm not so sure now LMAO

Chrissie said...

I cant believe you got all that stuff... leash ect and then did nothing... fucker!

DZER said...

you're right ... it might have worked some time ago ... LOL

and I love it when a hot chick calls me fucker on her lunch break LOL

Suze said...

Dzer, I have come in to this halfway through but I agree with Chrissie you should get a puppy.

I do hope you are talking about a dog here and it's not a metaphore. LOL.

DZER said...

suze: don't you be jumping on the bandwagon! LOL

and wait till I show you my metaphor ;)

Suze said...

Dzer, I'll be showing mine tomorrow!

SignGurl said...

Nice putter!!

Steppin' On Toes said...

Nah I'll be on vacation but who knows...hehe maybe a tad of a flash. Have a good one!

DZER said...

suze: can't wait to see it!

jenn: thanks darlin' ... you should see the balls that come with ;)

jax: c'mon ... just a TAD of flesh ... and you don't even have to share it with everyone ... just e-mail it to me LOL

Lindsey said...

I totally agree. Every friday I buy myself my favorite dinner from this little Italian place. It's a bit expensive...but I figure, I deserve it.

Bill Jones, Jr said...

Man that's a beautiful sunset. It's almost a crime that it's free for you. And admit it, you just bought those so women you tell you what a nice club you have.

sugarpunk said...

hey DZ.. nice set there... and well ya know what .. i always buy myslef a little something too.. not like people can pick out what you are gonna fall in love with when you walk iunto a store

DZER said...

linny: good for you! indulge woman, indulge!

sabledawn: you can see the bigger images on DZER's Guam Pics! and the ladies already know I have finely shafted clubs LOL

sugarpunk: exactly!

Chrissie said...

Hmm so i have to start sexing you up again and THEN with hold.

i see

ok

DZER said...

umm ... OK! LOL

Mike said...

Don't let these women bully you!!

lol...As I recall...you did show us a 'pup' you got a lil while ago.....how soon they forget.

DZER said...

mike: somehow, that particular pooch doesn't "count." weird, huh? LOL

Chrissie said...

No *puppy* that stupid stuffed thing *puppy* doest count at all!

DZER said...

chrissie: it *phone sex* doesn't count at *phone sex* all?

funny ... I thought *phone sex* that it would at least *phone sex* count for *phone sex* something.

LOL